Slut Theory – The Madonna Whore Complex


"Where such men love, they have no desire and

where they desire, they cannot love."

Sigmund Freud

This to me is a poignant observation for which I have my own musings on the subject. How many is too much, 1, 5, 25, 100? At what number is a woman’s moral compass called in to question? Is this rudimentary logic really the yardstick for which society uses to assess a woman’s character?

Let's explore this theory a little. Most men if given the choice would probably choose a virgin or as close as possible. Above all else, chastity is held up as the pinnacle of virtue and self-respect, so much so that misguided fools blow themselves up in the promise of 72 virgins in paradise.

This is a quality woman of high moral standings, a woman fit to have on my arm, a woman fit to raise my children, but I soon tire of her because she’s sexually inexperienced and needs time to learn and grow. Why should I bother when I can fuck the 'whore' who knows exactly what I want and is experienced enough to take me to that level of ecstasy that I long for.

Does this logic really hold up to scrutiny? No, it doesn’t, this is nonsense, you can’t judge a woman’s value or her ability to make you happy by the number of men she’s slept with. It comes down to how she values herself, and if she chooses to indulge her sexual desires by sleeping with multiple partners in a mature and responsible way, she should be free to do so.

So where does this notion stem from? I believe it’s the all-powerful ever elusive hard-wired evolutionary instinct – Survival, an inherently male imperative; to spread our seed as far and wide as possible with a big pat on the back for jack the lad who’s slept with over 200 women. On the flip side the female evolutionary imperative dictates that woman mate with one man, bear his kids and nurture them to the best of her ability – the good wife.

The ‘whore’ on the other hand is a threat to both genders, she is for all intents and purposes a competitor. She’s sexually powerful enough to take your man and has enough choices to discard him if he doesn’t provide her with what she desires. She’s a bitch, a slag, a whore, she’s emotionally damaged and difficult to control. This is what society teaches us and we buy into it.

But what exactly are we buying in to? I’ll tell you, we’re buying into an unrealistic and outdated perception of women that stifles their growth as sentient sexual beings who should be free to explore their every desire without fear of judgment. Because of this, we end up with repression to the point where most women are not even comfortable expressing their deepest sexual desires due to many years of social conditioning.

If you can help to rid a woman of these shackles and social dogmas and provide an environment where she’s free to embrace her sexuality, you’ll unleash passion and raw desire like never before.

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