How can I ensure my safey when meeting up with you?
I work as an independent male escort, so prior to meeting up face-to-face, I'm happy to provide proof of identity such as my driving license via email if required. I will always suggest meeting in a public place such as a well-known restaurant or bar where we can meet for a quick drink to make sure you are comfortable before proceeding.
Is it illegal to book a male escort?
No, in Great Britain escorting and prostitution itself (the exchange of sexual services for money) is not illegal, but a number of related activities, including soliciting in a public place, kerb crawling, owning or managing a brothel or pimping is illegal. [source]
Do you date men?
Sorry guys, I'm straight:)
Do you have age restrictions on the women who you date as a male escort?
Yes, I cater for women between the ages of 21 and 55.
Are you a registered business?
I am a registered with HMRC as Self-employed.
What is your business address?
34 New House, 67-68 Hatton Garden, London, EC1N 8JY, United Kingdom.
Do you pay taxes on your earnings?
Yes, as a registered self-employed individual, I am required by law to pay Tax and NI on my earnings under the name of 'Madison James Consulting'.
Do you use an NDA to protect client identity?
Yes, I use a multual confidentiality NDA which I send to all clients prior to meeting up.
Where can I find your terms of business?
You can find my terms of business here. Any questions, please feel free to contact me.
Our first date
What is the minimum booking time?
My minimum booking time is 2 hours. Contact me for rates.
How much prior notice do I need to give when making a booking with you?
If you would like to book me I would recommend making your appointment at least 2 weeks in advance in order to avoid disappointment.
Can we meet for a quick chat before handing over payment?
Yes, of course, after speaking on the phone we can meet for a casual drink to discuss what you would like and to see if we connect. There is no fee for this initial meeting, which usually lasts 15 minutes or so.
What do I say when first contacting you?
When making initial contact with me it’s understandable that you may be nervous. As an experienced escort I will always take time to answer as many questions necessary to put your mind at ease. All you need to do is express an interest in meeting me and I will take your hand and guide you through the process. It’s really that easy.
How do I make a donation?
Unless otherwise agreed a donation given to me is made in cash at the start of our date. Always take time to make sure you are happy to go ahead and never feel obliged to provide a donation if you're not comfortable with it.
Travel & Expenses
How far are you willing to travel to meet a client?
I travel all over the UK as well as internationally. Especially where it's warm!
Who pays for your travel costs?
Travel cost are covered by the client. A deposit is required for international bookings.
Where are you based?
I am currently based in the West Midlands, Birmingham, UK.
Am I expected to cover all expenses during my date with an escort?
Yes, it’s requested that you cover all expenses during the date e.g., food, drinks etc.
Who pays for the hotel when we meet?
The cost of booking a hotel and all expenses is covered by the client.
What is BDSM?
BDSM is an erotic sexual art form based on bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadomasochism. BDSM focuses on the exchange of power in the form of dominant and submissive partners. Roles are interchangeable and BDSM itself is open to interpretation like many other art forms. It's about erotic pleasure however it's derived whether through pain, pleasure or usually a skilful balance of both. BDSM should always be safe, sane and consensual (ssc) otherwise it becomes abuse, not pleasure.
What is a BDSM ‘Dom’?
A ‘Dom’ is someone who dominates and controls a ‘sub’ in a play session when engaging in BDSM.
What is a BDSM sub?
A BDSM sub is someone who is submissive to a dominant partner during a BDSM play session. You can read a piece that I wrote on this topic here.
Does BDSM hurt?
That depends on whether or not you like pain. I want to please you either way so tell me what you want and how far you’d like to go and I’ll take you there.
Do you have your own toys?
Yes, I have an assortment of quirky and wonderful toys that I can’t wait to use on you.
Are your toys hygienically clean?
Yes, I use a special anti-bacterial cleanser on all my toys before and after each play session. If you are not comfortable with a particular toy we don’t have to use it. You are also welcome to bring your own.
What is a good way of ending the session?
My favourite way to end a passionate and intense BDSM session is with a nice hot shower followed by a relaxing full body massage with plenty of hugs and kisses. But I can end the session however you’d like me to.
What does a BDSM contract cover?
It can cover many areas that govern the nature of the relationship between consenting adults. You can read my example contract here.
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