(It is strongly advised to amend contract as required)
No two contracts are alike and not every D/s dynamic is suited to one but I do find the negotiation process very sexy when the time is right. I also thought it would be good to add a bit more balance and contractual accountability on both sides compared to many of the other contracts I've seen in the past.
24/7 D/s SAMPLE CONTRACT
This contract is the complete and entire agreement between the signatories. I, ___________, your Dom, being of sound mind and body, hereinafter referred to as "Dom" and [Insert sub name] referred to as ‘sub’ being of sound mind and body, hereinafter referred to as "sub". The terms of this agreement will begin on ___/___/20__ at ______ a.m./pm. and will remain in effect until otherwise agreed by either party.
This agreement shall become null and void upon request of either party following a breach as defined in this document with immediate effect. Both parties are permitted to renegotiate certain agreed clauses within the contract but whilst the contract is in place both parties agree to be bound by the terms herein. This contract will be reviewed routinely on a 1-month basis. The contract is based on complete 24/7 submission of sub [Insert sub name] to Dom ______________.
1.1. I will take an active interest in your overall wellbeing, including sexual, mental and physical.
1.2. I will do everything within my power to train, educate and mould you into the best sub possible.
1.3. I will provide emotional support to you when required.
1.4. I will not become jealous, possessive, spiteful or abusive.
1.5. I will not abuse my authority over you by making unfair demands.
1.6. Finances, family and friends will not be subject to our agreement.
1.7. If I am found to be in the wrong I will address it.
2.1. I will respect and honour the invocation of the safe words (Red: stop, Yellow: slow down)
2.2. I will respect all soft and hard limits.
2.3. I will educate myself on the best practices for the activities that we engage in.
2.4. I take full responsibility for you whilst in my care.
3.1. I will be honest and open with you at all times.
3.2. I will make every effort to keep my word.
4.1. I will invest time and attention into nurturing and maintaining our relationship.
4.2. I will communicate regularly and clearly, so you fully understand what is required of you.
4.3. I will let you know if I will be unavailable for more than 24 hours of the day.
4.4. I will keep you abreast of any travel or work obligations that may interfere with our relationship.
5.1. I will make every effort to ensure you are nurtured sexually, mentally and physically.
5.2. I will invest time in helping you overcome any insecurities and anxieties.
5.3. I will teach you how to embrace your sexuality and become more confident.
5.4. I will teach you how to become more comfortable with your naked body.
5.5. I will teach you how to get exactly what you want from me sexually.
5.6. I will help you to connect and bond with me emotionally.
5.7. I will help you achieve a better work/life balance.
5.8. I will support your personal/life/career ambitions and push you to achieve them.
6.1. I will invest time in training you to be the best person you can be.
6.2. I will teach you new ways to experience your sexuality.
6.3. I will be patient with you when training but will also push you.
6.4. I will take time to learn how best to train you on an ongoing basis.
6.5. I will listen to your requests and endeavour to incorporate them IF I feel it will add value.
6.7. I will create an ongoing training scheme in order to make you a better sub.
6.8. I will make time for us to learn new skills and techniques to improve our relationship.
7.1. My word is final within the context of our agreement.
7.2. I do not need to explain or debate my decisions with you.
7.3. I may decide to offer leniency regarding certain rules at my discretion.
7.4. I will discipline you as agreed depending on the nature of the breach of contract.
8.1. I reserve the right to cancel this agreement with immediate effect if you are found to be in breach of contract and we are unable to find a resolution.
8.2. I reserve the right to cancel this agreement if it no longer suits my needs.
9.1. i will never lie to my Dom.
9.2. i will do everything in my power to please my Dom and make him proud of me.
9.3. i will address Dom as Sir at all times, especially when in public. (Family and friends may be excluded from this rule)
9.4. My body and mind will belong to my Dom completely within the context of our agreement.
9.5. i will make myself available for Dom's pleasure sexual or otherwise as and when Dom chooses.
9.6. i will wear a collar or some symbol of ownership at all times unless otherwise agreed.
9.7. i will obey my Doms orders without arguing, giving attitude or raising voice.
9.8. i will follow commands to the letter and inform Dom when a task is completed.
10.1. i will commit fully to maintaining our relationship.
10.2. i will let you know if i will be unavailable for more than 24 hours of the day.
10.3. i will keep you abreast of any travel or work obligations that may interfere with our agreement.
11.1. i will not interrupt my Dom when he is speaking.
11.2. If i have an issue i will politely ask my Dom for permission to discuss it.
11.3. i will conduct myself with class at all times, especially when in public.
11.4. i will ask for permission to consume alcohol if i intend to drink excessively.
11.5. i will be mindful of my language (cursing) when speaking to Dom.
11.6. i will adopt good posture at all times, no slouching.
11.7. When in Dom's company, if i require being excused i will ask Dom's permission to do so.
11.8. I will inform my Dom should I have intentions of forming intimate relationships with others.
11.9. i will read self-development books in order to improve mentally.
11.10. i will maintain a healthy and well-balanced diet.
12.1. i will ask Dom's permission when choosing outfits on the days I spend time with him.
12.2. i agree to maintain my body by working out at least 3 times a week.
12.3. i will maintain clean-shaven/waxed genitalia, legs and armpits at all times.
12.4. i agree to present myself impeccably at all times including but not limited to hair, nails, makeup/natural, perfume, clothes and shoes.
12.5. i will wear high heels whenever possible. Minimum height is 4 inches.
12.6. Trainers are only permitted for work or gym.
12.7. i will only wear flat shoes if necessary.
12.8. i will only wear underwear if necessary.
12.9. When alone with my Dom i will remain in underwear at all times when appropriate.
12.10. i will sleep naked when with my Dom unless otherwise permitted.
12.11. All makeup and accessories will be removed before bed and I will use a proper cleaning routine to protect my skin.
12.12. i will moisturise my entire body after every shower.
12.13. i will regularly attend spa days, pampering sessions and general maintenance.
13.1. i will study BDSM and the principles of Dominant / submissive relationships to better acquaint myself with the principles.
13.2. Dom will set topics for me to research and i will report back to him on what i have learnt.
13.3. i will commit 100% to my training program and will make every effort to be the best sub i can be.
13.4. i will make myself available to be used for bondage practice and any other new skills Dom deems necessary for our development. Dom has stipulated that my work commitments will come first but i will endeavour to accommodate his wishes.
13.5. If there is something i find difficult or i’m uncomfortable with i will inform my Dom.
14.1. i will accept my discipline without complaining.
14.2. i will make it clear that i understand why i am being disciplined.
14.3. i will thank Dom for taking the time to discipline me.
14.4. i will apologise and endeavour to not make the same mistakes again.
15.1. I reserve the right to terminate this agreement with immediate effect if you are found to be in breach of contract and we are unable to find a resolution.
15.2. I reserve the right to terminate this agreement if it no longer suits my needs.
16. OUR WORD IS OUR BOND
Both Dom and sub agree to commit to this agreement and will make every effort to serve and please each other. Dom and sub will make every effort to keep their word and will provide a time and date when agreeing to complete tasks if applicable. If unable to do so, they will inform each other as soon as possible and make arrangements to rectify the situation. Honesty, reliability, trust and respect for each other’s time supersedes all else.
Dom and sub agree that breaching this agreement will constitute a Breach of Contract. The parties have indicated their acceptance of this agreement by signing below.
SIGNED by Dom:_______________________________________
SIGNED by sub:_______________________________________