There’s something devilishly arousing about the submissive mindset that warms a part of me. The willingness to please, the desire to be nurtured, to grow, to be the best version of themselves and all the while having to balance this raw primal emotion with the everyday. Not being able to discuss with close friends who would definitely not understand, the fear of being judge as weak or needy, the social isolation one can feel – it takes a strong individual to choose this lifestyle. The existence for many in this space is far from simple. It’s not always easy to obey your Dom and do as you’re told, especially after a long day at work when all you want to do is sink in to your bed and wrap up.